Monday, April 18, 2016

Apparently There Are 7 Types Of Breasts



breast shape

In the event that you generally thought there were just two sorts of boobs—enormous or little—your psyche is going to be blown. As indicated by bra organization ThirdLove, ladies have one of seven diverse arrangements of headlights.

"Amid our item outline process, we found that getting an incredible fit was about distinguishing the style that best suits your normal shape," says Ra'el Cohen, VP of configuration and item improvement at ThirdLove.

A wide range of woman protuberances are superbly ordinary and perfectly blemished, knowing your shape can help you get the best bra fit. Skim the brand's Breast Shape Dictionary to ID your pair—an

hilter kilter bosoms


Hilter kilter: One bosom is bigger than alternate; ranges from minor (scarcely observable) to more proclaimed (as envisioned).

Look best in: Bras with removable cushions, so you can wear a cushion (or two) on the littler side to try and out your look.

ringer formed breats


Ringer Shape: Generally heavier bosoms; smaller at the top, then definitely more full toward the base.

Look best in: Full-scope styles. Since the bosoms are heavier, they can drag down the shoulders, bringing on the straps to slip (and lessen support).

east west bosom shape



East West: A tender slant start to finish, yet out to the sides; areolas point in inverse bearings.

Look best in: Push-up or T-shirt styles, which compliment your characteristic shape while serenely uniting your bosoms.

side set bosoms

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Side Set: A wide space in the middle of the two bosoms; areolas point somewhat more forward than East West.

Look best in: Balconette styles, which have more fabric over the cups to camouflage a bigger crevice between bosoms.

thin bosom shape

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Thin: somewhat more extensive at the top, smaller at the base; by and large thin without a great deal of bosom tissue.

Look best in: Plunge styles, with or without push-up material. The dive pulls the bosoms toward the center to make a touch of cleavage.

tear drop bosom shape

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Tear Drop: Similar to Bell Shape yet with a much gentler slant; effectively identifiable from the side.

Look best in: Plunge styles, with or without push-up material. The more profound neck area and cups make lift, which fills in the shallower top of the bosoms.

round bosom shape

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Round: Equally full on top and base; frequently surgically improved, yet not generally.

Look best in: Balconette styles, which flaunt your energetic shape. Consider Round bosoms to bras as the Oval face to hair styles: They can pull off anything. (Good for you.)

7 Reasons Your Vagina Is Itchy Beyond Belief


itchy vagina

It's not precisely simple to scratch a tingle down there, which is the reason it's so disappointing when it happens (and here and there it resembles it comes totally all of a sudden, right?). Vaginal tingling can be brought on by something as straightforward as your period items—however in different cases, it can really be an indication of a more major issue. This aide will help you make sense of precisely what's making you have an inclination that you have ants in your jeans—and what your treatment choices are. (That being said, with regards to your woman parts, it's generally best to avoid any unnecessary risk and visit your gyno for an appropriate analysis.)

Bacterial vaginosis


Bacterial vaginosis (a.k.a. BV) is the most widely recognized explanation behind vaginal tingling and is brought on by an unevenness in sound microscopic organisms and a change in vaginal pH. It feels like a yeast disease, yet for this situation, the release is more watery and for the most part has a smell, clarifies Lauren Streicher, MD, creator of Sex Rx: Hormones, Health, and Your Best Sex Ever. With regards to treatment, Streicher says RepHresh, an OTC cream, frequently works. In the event that your BV doesn't clear up after the proposed use time, you'll need to approach your doc for something medicine quality.

Yeast disease


Like BV, a yeast disease is oftentimes the aftereffect of vaginal pH being lopsided, says Wendy Askew, MD, a load up ensured ob-gyn at the Institute for Women's Health in San Antonio. They can happen indiscriminately or taking after anti-infection use, sex, stress, or an adjustment in eating routine (and ladies with diabetes have a higher danger). Notwithstanding irritation, you may likewise see coagulated, white, or thick release. The uplifting news is that you can simply ahead and utilize an OTC cure, similar to Monistat, which ought to deal with the side effects inside a day or somewhere in the vicinity. To dodge intermittent contaminations, Askew prescribes bringing a probiotic with a high microscopic organisms tally of acidophilus, similar to Flora-Q, which will hold yeast under wraps.

Contact dermatitis


This skin disturbance is brought about by sensitivities to specific items, says Brett Worly, MD, colleague teacher in the division of obstetrics and gynecology at the Ohio State University. You can get it from anything with aromas or added substances, including condoms and ointments, and on top of tingling, you may likewise see redness, swelling, and skin thickening. It can likewise be the aftereffect of shaving, says Askew. On the off chance that you realize that you're powerless to vaginal aggravation, use hypoallergenic cleanliness items, similar to cleanser, cleansing agents, and clothing cleansers, making a point to maintain a strategic distance from chemicals, cleansers, and chafing oils, says Worly. Indeed, even bathroom tissue with fragrances or hues can be troublemakers. Additionally, you should abstain from shaving in case you're touchy—and never, ever douche. The vagina is self-cleaning, so you don't have to put anything on or in it, says Streiche

Skin inflammation or Psoriasis


Hereditary skin issue like these two can bring about redness and tingling in the genital area, alongside an inconsistent or rash-like appearance. In case you're determined to have either, a gentle steroid like hydrocortisone and scrubbing down can ease the uneasiness, says Askew. On the off chance that you don't feel help inside a week, get some information about other treatment choices.

MORE: 12 Ways to Show Your Vagina More Love Every Day

Sexually transmitted maladies

We shouldn't need to let you know this once more, yet unprotected sex can prompt a STD (which is the reason you generally, dependably need to utilize security). What's more, a pack of them can make your woman parts tingle, including chlamydia, herpes, trichomoniasis, and gonorrhea. Crabs, or pubic lice, can likewise show up in ladies with hair down there. With any of these, the tingling (or shivering sensation) can advance to torment and blazing, says Askew. On the off chance that you encounter tingling alongside whatever other basic STD manifestations like copying while you pee, noxious release, injuries on your privates, and torment amid sex, you ought to book it to your gyno to get tried ASAP. On the off chance that you do test positive for a STD, your specialist will give you either injectable or oral anti-toxins, or an antiviral drug on account of herpes, says Askew.

Lichen sclerosus

This genuine condition and reason for vulvar tingling shows up as white spots on the skin, says Streicher. While it can appear unexpectedly, some therapeutic experts think hormones or an overactive insusceptible framework may have something to do with it. Lichen sclerosus should be analyzed by a gynecologist and treated with professionally prescribed solution.

MORE: 6 Reasons Your Butt Is Red And Itchy

Hormones

Whenever your hormone levels change or vary (like amid your period, pregnancy, menopause, or while you're taking conception prevention), you may encounter vaginal tingling. Dryness is another marker that hormones could be to fault for your torment. With regards to your period, the items you use amid that time (like cushions and undies liners) regularly contain scents or hues that can add to the distress. In the event that this transpires frequently, think about attempting as a menstrual container or natural cotton items, which might be less aggravating. Be that as it may, it might be hard to pinpoint if your anti-conception medication medicine is what's making you tingle down there (at times the best way to know whether this is the offender is to stop or begin hormonal contraception, says Worly). With any of these hormonal changes, your specialist may endorse a hormonal cream to apply topically and you can likewise inquire as to whether the tingle keeps on being a determined issue.

If You're One Of These Two Bra Sizes, You're Probably Wearing The Wrong One


breast size and the wrong size bra

Your bra size is very near and dear to your heart—literally. It's easy to get a little too hung up on the numbers and letters we see on the tag and end up in the wrong size because of it. In fact, there are two particular sizes tons of women think they are—even though they're not. The culprits? 34B and 36C.
They sound pretty average, right? That's exactly the problem. "A lot of women think of these sizes as the norm, so they start off there when shopping and never really learn how a proper bra should fit," says Jenny Altman, fit and style expert for Aerie. "Even I wore one of those sizes for years." (Looking for answers to embarrassing health questions? Prevention has you covered—get a FREE trial + 12 FREE gifts.)

If you wear one of these sizes and are suddenly questioning everything you thought you knew about your breasts, don't panic. Find a mirror, ditch your T-shirt, and look out for these 3 signs that you're wearing the wrong size.
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1. You can slide your band up and down.
"If you have your band on the tightest hook and it can still move around, your bra is too big," says Altman. The band, not the straps, support your breasts. This is especially important if you're a C cup or above and depend on your bra to avoid back pain and keep the girls up where you want them. A proper band fit is also extremely important when you're wearing a convertible or strapless bra because you don't have straps to help compensate for a too-big band.
Other signs that your band is too big: straps that dig into your shoulders or constantly need to be tightened.
So say you wear a 36C and your shoulders ache by the end of the day. Try going down to a 34 band and up to a D cup. "A lot of women have what I call 'the fear of D' because they think it means they're big or overweight, but that's not true," says Altman.
Still not sure if your band is the right size? Check out the back of your bra in the mirror. Is the band straight across your back, parallel to the floor? If yes, then it's probably a good fit. If your band is riding up or pulling, you need a smaller size.
MORE: 5 Everyday Habits That Are Causing Your Boobs To Sag
2. You've got boob bulge.
Look at the front of your bra. If you've got boob overflow (a.k.a. "double boob") either in the front or on the sides, you don't have enough room in the cup. Cleavage is great, but bulge that can show through your clothes, not so much.
"Also, if the center area between the two cups is floating away or not touching your skin instead of laying flat against you, it's time to move up a cup size," says Altman.
MORE: Your Boobs Age Faster Than You Do—How To Deal
3. All of your bras are the exact same size.

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Not all bras are created equal. Just because you're a 34B in a demi bra doesn't mean you're a 34B in a full-coverage bra. "Think of it like jeans," says Altman, "You might be a size 28 in boyfriend jeans, but you may need a bigger size in skinny jeans." Like denim, different style bras have such specific fit and can vary by brand. Demi bras are low-cut—sometimes called "half cups"—and they have significantly less material than a full-coverage bra in the same size. So you may wear a 34B in a demi bra but a 34A in a full-coverage, says Altman.
Still not sure?
When in doubt, head to a specialty store for a bra fitting. "A good fitter will bring you a few sizes and a few styles so that you can really find what's right for you," says Altman. Wear a light T-shirt so that the fitter can get as accurate a number as possible when taking measurements.
"Would you wear a size 8.5 sneaker when you know that you're an 8?" asks Altman. "Absolutely not." Your boobs deserve to be treated just as well as your feet (if not better).

12 Embarrassing Sex Questions You're Too Afraid To Ask

Answers to the sex questions you're too embarrassed to ask
We get it, there are some questions that you'd just rather ask Google than your best friend or even your gyno. But instead of leaving your burning sex questions to strangers on the interwebs, we've asked some super-qualified experts for the all the answers on everything from penis injuries to squirting. You can thank us later.
Can I really break his penis?
Well, it's not a bone, but you can definitely injure it. "It is possible to fracture a penis due to trauma during particularly vigorous sex or masturbation," confirms ob-gyn Alyssa Dweck, MD, coauthor of V is for Vagina. "The erect penis is engorged with blood. Forceful bending of the erect penis during aggressive sexual play, can lead to this serious injury." Yikes. What should you do if you think this has happened to your man? Head to the ER! "Urgent surgical treatment is recommended," says Dweck. Find about more common sex injuries—and how to deal.
What if the condom comes off inside me?( Photograph by Rafe Swan/Getty Images )

First, don't panic. Crazily enough, this is totally common, says Dweck. "Retrieve the condom and insure it is intact," she instructs. "Even if you think there is no spillage of contents, if you are not using another form of contraception such as the pill or IUD, I recommend emergency contraception ASAP if you don't desire pregnancy." Next? Get tested if it's at all possible that either you or your partner could have an STD. Have more birth control concerns? Read our birth control FAQ.Why don't I ever orgasm during sex? What can I do?
First of all, nothing is wrong with you. In most cases, this is just a matter of finding the right spot. "Many women will not have an orgasm with vaginal intercourse alone and more direct clitoral stimulation from a partner or through masturbation does the trick," Dweck explains. If that doesn't work, your lack of orgasm could be due to chronic medical issues (including diabetes, cardiovascular disease, and depression to name a few), medications like antidepressants, poor body image, relationship troubles, hormonal changes, or even stress. All of these things can affect orgasm and libido. Here, check out all the ways to navigate orgasm obstacles.
Is it possible to pee during sex?
Not really. It's more likely that you feel the urge to pee, which is actually good news according to Emily Morse, PhD, host of Sex With Emily. "This means your G-spot is being hit in the right way, and you might be close to orgasm," Morse explains. "While it is possible to leak urine during sex, especially if the bladder is really full, I suspect this is actually not urine at all but rather female ejaculation which can occur during orgasm," (see: squirting) says Dweck. Check out more common sex myths, here.
How can you prevent queefing during sex?
Unfortunately, you can't really, it's just one of those natural phenomena we have no control over. "Queefing is due to trapped air in the vagina and can occur during or after intercourse," says Dweck. Check out 17 more weird, uncomfortable, awkward, kind of hilarious things that can happen during sex.
Is it normal to get really wet during sex?
Is it normal to get really wet during sex?( Photograph by Lisa Valder/Getty Images )

Yes, there's absolutely nothing wrong with a little liquid–or a lot, says Dweck. If you're having the opposite problem, grab some lube. Bonus: Lots of lubrication can make it even easier to orgasm.Is anal sex/anal play totally unsanitary?
Not if you're sanitary about it! "Condoms will help to protect from bacteria/feces during anal sex play," Dweck says. And make sure you use a separate condom if you switch from anal to vaginal or oral sex to avoid any bacteria moving around. "I suggest condoms and plenty of lubricant during anal sex." (Build a gorgeous, sexy body with the Women's Health Big Book of Pilates.)
What exactly is squirting?
Squirting is when a woman releases fluid around the urethra, says Morse. "This release is tied to intense G-spot stimulation," she says. One thing to note is that it is not urine, though people often think it is. "It's actually very similar to male semen, minus the sperm," Morse points out. And despite what your guy might have seen in porn, it's not something that happens to all women all the time (check out more things that are only true in porn.)
What's the deal with curved penises?
Penises come in every size, shape, and color (just like vaginas!). Some curve up, down or sideways while erect. "This is very common and shouldn't be of concern unless he is experiencing pain or it interferes with sex," says Morse. "If a man's penis starts to change and gets curvier over time, he might have Peyronie's disease which can come from injuring himself during sex," (see: breaking a penis). If this is the case he should go see his doctor. Otherwise a curved penis is totally normal and might just hit you in all the right places (lucky girl).
I'm heterosexual but get turned on by girl-on-girl porn. Is that weird?
( Photograph by Hans Neleman/Getty Images )

No, "it means that you're turned on by watching women have sex," simplifies Morse. "It's very common for women to be turned on by watching other women have sex in porn." It doesn't necessarily mean that you want to have sex with a woman—just like you may fantasize about sex with a stranger with no intention of having a one night stand. Interesting, right? Check out 11 things you never knew about porn.What do I do if his penis is uncomfortably big (or uncomfortably small)?
Just talk about it! Don't be ashamed to address sexual issues, especially if you're in pain or you're not enjoying sex. Morse assures that if he's too small and is unable to please you during intercourse, there are obviously plenty of other things he can do. "Let him know how good it feels when he uses his fingers or mouth on you, or how sexy it is to watch him tease you with his hands." So what if the guy is too big for comfort? "Use a lot of lubricant during intercourse, and go slow," says Morse. She also suggests favoring cowgirl over missionary: "The woman on top position is best because you're more in control of the motions and can slowly lower yourself down until it feels just right," she suggests. Here are some more positions to try based on every penis size.
He's awful at oral, how do I help?
Every woman requires different types of stimulation during oral sex because every woman's body is different. So it's important to speak up and tell him what you like—something as simple as "slow down baby", or "a little to the left" might be all the direction he needs. "If he doesn't listen or take instructions very well, you can always show him with your fingers which areas are most sensitive along with the pressure, speed and motion you need," Morse recommends. "Then he can follow along with his tongue and improve his oral skills to your liking." Or you can send him these eight ways to spice up oral sex—we promise he'll take the hint.

How Your Boobs Change in Your 20s, 30s, and 40s

Just like there’s a lot women don’t know about how their vaginas change with age, so much happens to your breasts as you get older. The changes range from their appearance to how they feel, so it’s smart to stay in the know with what’s going on. Ready to get familiar with your chest? Read on to learn what you can expect as the years go by.
In Your 20s…

Your breast size can fluctuate for various reasons in this decade, according to Lisa Jacobs, M.D., associate professor of surgery at Johns Hopkins Medicine. First, you may be dropping the freshman 15, your metabolism may slow, or perhaps you’re otherwise settling into your adult weight. “The breasts will change in size as you gain or lose weight,” says Jacobs. Beyond that, there’s pregnancy. “In their 20s, many women get pregnant, so there’s the breast enlargement that happens with that weight gain and preparing for lactation,” she says. After the lactational changes, your breasts may seem either smaller or larger than they were before pregnancy. Pregnancy can also make your areolas darker and your nipples larger, though those both return to their pre-pregnancy states after delivery.
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Common Lumps and Bumps
Fibrocystic change, which is a very common condition characterized by benign lumps in one or both breasts, often emerges when women are in their 20s, says Jacobs. Women at this age might be dealing with changes in their menstrual cycles, which means differences in hormones like estrogen. That can cause breasts to get swollen lumps, which are often totally normal. If you feel a lump that hurts but also feels a lot like another area in the same breast or the other one, that’s a sign it’s probably fibrocystic change rather than something worrisome (lumps associated with cancer usually aren’t painful, according to Jacobs). Still, be sure to check with your doctor if you notice any major changes.
In Your 30s…
Some Stretching
After having a few kids, the skin of your breasts can start to stretch because of the associated weight gain and loss. “That can lead to stretch marks or ptosis, which is a drooping of the breasts," says Jacobs. This is especially true if you’ve had to deal with significant weight changes during and after pregnancies, so don’t be alarmed if stretch marks appear, though they’re still more likely to show up on your stomach.
In Your 40s…
A Little Bit Softer Now
In your 40s, menopause leads to more breast changes as your ovaries start to produce less estrogen. At this point, your breasts go through what’s called involution, which is when the breast tissue is replaced by fat, which is softer, so they don’t feel as firm, says Jacobs. Involution doesn’t happen uniformly, so one part of the breast may get fatty, leaving the tissue next to it feeling like a lump in relation. If the lumps are soft, like the side of your nose, that’s not a red flag. If they’re a bit firmer like the bridge of your nose, they should be evaluated. Either way, doing frequent self-exams can help you notice any differences you might want to bring up to a doctor. “We encourage women to do them regularly so they can stay on top of how their breasts are changing,” says Jacobs.
Decrease in Density 
Although you can experience ptosis after major weight loss or pregnancy, it’s more likely to come on naturally as you age. The elasticity of your breasts can decline because the sag-preventing collagen starts to give way. This is also when your breasts become less dense. That's one of the reasons why mammograms are advised after age 40, because doctors are able to see better due to reduced density, says Jacobs.

Why You Should Be Looking At Your Vagina On the Regular

me talking about vaginas this year—but you should be doing more than just talking about your nether-region. It's also smart to take a good look at what you're working with down there on a regular basis. "It's empowering to educate yourself about your body and note any concerns," says ob-gyn Alyssa Dweck, M.D., co-author of V is for Vagina. "And you may just prevent a bigger health problem in the future."
Studying your lady-parts in a mirror can help you spot new moles, painful or bloody lesions, blisters or fissures, or thick discharge—all of which are reasons to book an appointment with your ob-gyn, stat. "In general, if something shows up that is not normal for you, always check in with your gynecologist," says Dweck. 
Granted, knowing what's normal for you takes a little time. "While there are average lengths, shapes, hues, and variations in symmetry when it comes to the vulva, the truth is there really is no 'normal,'" says Dweck. "The issue is what’s normal for you and whether one is having symptoms of distress regarding such."
So grab a mirror and stand in your bathroom with one foot on the floor and the other propped up on the edge of your toilet seat or lip of your bathtub. From this angle, Dweck says you should be able to spot the labia majora (the outer plumper lips of vulva); the labia minora (the inner, thinner lips); the clitoris (or rather, the clitoral hood or covering); the perineum (the area between the rectum and vagina); the urethra (where you pee); the vaginal opening; and the the anus. Here's an oh-so-helpful diagram of female genitals, courtesy of the Office on Women's Health at the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services.
Once you see what looks "normal" for you, you'll be prepared to spot problems the next time around. You can check how things are going down there once every few weeks—although we won't tell if you want to give your lady-parts a look more often than that.

Decoding Your Vaginal Discharge

Like most women with other things going on in life, you probably don’t give your vaginal discharge much thought. As long as it looks and feels normal—that means clear or white and watery to slightly sticky, depending on where you are in your cycle—you have no reason to be concerned.
But when something in your undies looks or feels off, that sounds alarm bells. Maybe there’s a lot more of it than usual, the color is weird, or you’re hit with a whiff of an odor that you know can’t be good. Before you panic and buy out all the creams and sprays in your local drugstore’s lady bits aisle, read our discharge decoder.
It’s Probably: Ovulation. This slippery discharge appears during the middle of your cycle; it’s your body’s way of making it easier for sperm to slide into your vagina and fertilize an egg. “Discharge at ovulation can be copious," says Alyssa Dweck, M.D., ob-gyn in Westchester, New York and coauthor of V Is for Vagina. "I often hear from patients who are worried something is wrong, but it’s normal.” No wonder this type of sex is the kind women prefer when they’re ovulating!
RELATED: The 7 Most Important Vagina Stories from 2014
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It’s White, Clumpy, and Crazy Itchy
It’s Probably:
A yeast infection, one that's caused by an overgrowth of the yeast that normally helps balance the bacteria in your vagina. “There’s usually a lot of cottage-cheese looking discharge," says Dweck. "And while it doesn’t have an odor, it’s accompanied by killer itching of the outer or inner labia." A yeast infection is incredibly common and can be caused by a ton of things, such as taking antibiotics or sitting around in your damp gym clothes. “Yeast love warm, moist environments,” says Dweck. Pick up an OTC anti-yeast cream, or ask your doctor about an antifungal prescription that ends the infection without any mess.
It’s Yellowish-Green and Possibly Stings a Little
It’s Probably:
Chlamydia or gonorrhea, two common bacterial STDs, says Dweck. Other signs of either infection include pelvic pain and burning while urinating—but scarily, most women have no symptoms. Once your doctor diagnoses chlamydia or gonorrhea, they’re easily cured with antibiotics. Thing is, you have to get your guy to see a doctor, as well. “Both partners need to be cured, or you’ll keep passing either infection back and forth to each other,” says Dweck.
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It’s Grayish, Thin, and Has a Strong Odor
It’s Probably:
Bacterial Vaginosis (BV). “The odor is the defining trait—it’s kind of a foul, fish-like smell," says Dweck. We know—not something you want a whiff of when you take off your undies. BV is also very common (it’s the most common vaginal infection among women ages 15 to 44, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention) and is easily cured with prescription meds once your doctor diagnoses it. It’s a bit of a mystery why some women develop BV, but it generally means that something has upset the bacterial balance in your vagina, though experts aren’t always sure what.
It’s Frothy, Has an Unpleasant Odor, and Is Tinged Gray or Green
It’s Probably:
Trichomoniasis. It’s the most common curable STD in the country, according to the CDC, yet you don’t have to have sex to catch it. “Trichomoniasis is caused by an organism that can live on towels, vibrators, and other inanimate objects,” says Dweck. Equally as alarming, most men and women who have it don’t show symptoms—but if left untreated, it can make it easier for a woman to contract HIV and affect her baby’s health if she is pregnant, reports the CDC. The good news is that it can be treated and cured with a prescription pretty quickly.
It's Bloody
It’s Probably:
Breakthrough bleeding, which often happens during the first few months after a woman goes on the Pill, as her body adjusts to the new hormones. If it's dark red or brownish-colored discharge, it could simply be leftover blood from your period that took its time leaving your vagina. In rare cases, bloody discharge can signal something more threatening—for example, a precancerous cervical lesion. “Let your doctor know, so she can check you out and rule out a serious issue,” says Dweck.

Take a Virtual Tour Through Your Lady Parts


Forget GPS. Some of us could benefit from a little CPS. When asked in a study to point to the clitoris on a diagram of the female genitalia, 29 percent of women and 25 percent of men were completely lost, the majority of those believing it was located "on the front wall of the vaginal canal." Nope! Considering it's the epicenter of pleasure for most women, a tutorial is in order. So lock the door, grab a hand mirror, and let's inspect your ittiest bits.
 

PREPUCE
Gently pull back your outer and inner vaginal lips, and up top you'll see this little hood. Like the foreskin on an uncircumcised penis, it protects your glans clitoris (your big O spot) and "retracts when you become aroused," says Lauren Streicher, M.D., an associate clinical professor of obstetrics and gynecology at Northwestern University and author of Sex RX.
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GLANS CLITORIS
Lift the prepuce and you'll meet the external part of the clitoris—and the orgasm holy grail. This pink little nub contains 8,000 supersensitive nerves. The closer it is to your vaginal opening, the higher the chances you'll get off during penetrative sex. If yours is spaced further away (we're talking a difference in millimeters), try a rear-entry position while your guy rubs your GC with a hand or a vibrator, says Streicher.
CORPUS CAVERNOSUM
These are the "legs" of the clitoris, which are connected to the glans clitoris. They're located inside your body (like a muscle), so they aren't visible or touchable from the outside. They contain erectile tissue and swell with blood when you become aroused. Unlike a schlong, however, they don't rise when you get a lady boner.
URETHRAL OPENING
This bitty dot located a smidge under the clitoris is where pee comes out—and possibly ejaculate for the 10 percent or more of women who "squirt" during orgasm. Streicher says we aren't sure if the fluid is entirely ejaculate from the Skene's glands, or whether it's mixed with some urine. In any case, it is not an erogenous part.

RELATED: 4 Things You Should Never, Ever Do to Your Vagina

VAGINA OPENING
To put it bluntly, where your man puts his P. "It doesn't have nearly as many nerve endings or the same kind of sensitivity as the clitoris, though, which explains why most women don't climax simply from penetration," explains Streicher.
G-SPOT
A bundle of nerves located two to three inches inside your vagina, along the roof (closer to your stomach than back). Is it an extension of the clitoris or a separate structure? That's up for debate. But stroking it can feel intensely satisfying.
CERVIX
Located about four to six inches inside your vagina, where the vaginal canal ends (though this distance varies from woman to woman and also lengthens a few inches to accommodate a penis when a woman is aroused, says Streicher). A well-endowed partner (or sex toy) can stimulate it, and some women say that's enough to make them peak.

23 Essential Health Tips from Dr. Oz


My patients are among my best teachers. They've taught me how to communicate clearly—and how to live a better life. On The Dr. Oz Show, I've seen that once people are emotionally involved, change happens quickly, especially if they feel that their behavior is letting loved ones down. Large-scale change seems daunting. We want simple routines that we can automatically follow. Adopt some of the steps here, which anyone can do, and you will like your life more in just a couple of weeks. And you'll live longer. Try them—they work for me.
Women's Health Tip
Besides laughing, certain foods have been proven to soothe stress and can counteract the damage that chronic pressure does to your bod. Stock up on these eats and beat down stress for good.
Don't Skip Breakfast
Fiber in the morning means less hunger late in the afternoon, when you're most likely to feel tired and gorge yourself on sugar. My morning dose comes from steel-cut oatmeal, usually mixed with raisins, walnuts, and flaxseed oil. An early start on eating also keeps your metabolism more active throughout the day; breakfast eaters are thinner than people who just rush out the door.
Women's Health Tip
Need a new recipe? Try one of these eight healthy oatmeal mix ins for an instant breakfast upgrade.
Hit the Sack
Conan and Dave are funny, but they're not worth the strain on your system. Seven hours of sleep a night not only helps you live longer, but also lowers your stress, sharpens your memory, and reduces cravings for pants-splitting foods. Set a bedtime and stick to it. My target is 10:30 p.m. I record the late shows and then watch them the next day as I pedal a stationary bike.
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Admire Your Work
Don't be so trigger-happy with the flusher. Turn around and take a look at your poop, which speaks volumes about your gut and overall health. Poop should be smooth and S-shaped, like your colon. If it comes out too lumpy, or drops into the bowl like marbles, you're constipated. Increase your fiber and water intake. This happens to me when I travel, so I fiber-load before a trip to avoid getting irritable.
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Don't Pamper Your Bad Back
Even if you're hunched over in agony, taking to your bed will only make a bad back worse. The latest research shows that bed rest weakens back muscles and prolongs the suffering. Married men may suffer more than single men because of all the pampering. I used to love milking the care from Lisa, but the best solution is to get up, take a pain reliever, and be a soldier.
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Taste the Colors
Foods with bright, rich colors are more than just nice to look at. They're also packed with flavonoids and carotenoids, powerful compounds that bind the damaging free radicals in your body, lowering inflammation. (Sadly, skittles do not count.) Eat nine fistfuls of colorful fruits and vegetables each day and you'll reap the benefits without having to give up other foods. Whenever I shop the produce aisle, I'm reminded that these foods are often more powerful than the drugs sold in pharmacies. My favorites are arugula and blueberries.
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Brushing is Not Enough
If you plan to spend your later years eating more than yogurt and applesauce, invest in some floss. No matter how thoroughly or long you brush your teeth, you're missing a good portion of their total surface. That's like washing one armpit after a workout. But the dangers of skipping floss go beyond hygiene: The bacteria that linger can increase your risk of heart disease. I use Reach Ultraclean floss, which stretches to glide between teeth.
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Take a Deep Belly Breath
Do this anywhere, anytime. Push out your bellows and suck air through your nose until your lungs are full. They'll fill with nitric oxide, a chemical found in the back of your nose that opens up blood vessels. The dose of oxygen will make you feel happier and more alert. This is my secret technique for calming down before a show or a tough stitch in the OR.
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Join a Yoga Class
Yoga is the most important exer cise of my daily routine. Being surrounded by beautiful women in spandex should be reason enough for you to join a class, but if you need more motivation, consider this: Yoga eases stress, lowers blood pressure, slows heart rates, and increases flexibility. And there's nothing mystical about it. Loosening your muscles will make them more adaptable, so you may be less likely to injure yourself playing sports. Sure, some of the poses may look ridiculous, but that's for a reason you'll learn quickly enough. Yoga can reach and work muscles that are ignored during routine sports and daily life. My favorite maneuver is the sun salutation.
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Don't Be an Island
Ever wonder why women live longer than men do? One major reason: You form tight networks and actually talk about your problems. If you face life's stresses alone, you will make yourself older. Bankruptcy, for example, causes enough stress to wreak havoc on your body. With another person's love and support, that inner aging can be reduced. Don’t forget to reach out to your friends when you need them.
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Avoid Fad Diets
The secret to weight loss is not to avoid carbs, fats, yellow foods, solid foods, or foods that start with the letter G. The real trick is to lower your daily intake by about 100 calories. You'll hardly notice, but it'll add up to a loss of about 10 pounds in a year. Calorie restriction has been shown to lengthen life (in rats and monkeys). I cut back once a year to reset my appetite and tastebuds. Healthy food tastes great afterward. Frankly, any food would.
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Be a Smart Patient
Your doctor can help keep you in good health, but the responsibility ultimately falls on you. Seek a second opinion before undergoing any procedure, because 30 percent of the time, that opinion will change the diagnosis or plan. Keep a written medical history, and educate yourself about any family problems, even if that means calling your creepy uncle. You might even consider signing onto Microsoft HealthVault or Google Health, so your files are accessible in case you find yourself in trouble away from home.
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Lose the Belly
Grab a tape measure and put it around your body at the level of your belly button. That number should be less than half your height. So for my 6'1" frame, I need to keep my waist under 36.5". Just think—you’ll be avoiding heart attacks and diabetes as well as looking hot in your bikini. That’s a win win win.
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Go Green
I drink green tea three times a day. It's packed with heart-boosting and cancer-stopping polyphenols that black tea doesn't offer. (These beneficial chemicals are lost when it's fermented.) Green tea also delivers a boost of alertness, but from a smaller dose of caffeine than black tea. Green tea can even fight dandruff, although only if you pour it directly onto your scalp. (It's probably a good idea to let it cool down first.)
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Sweat Till You're Wet
If you can work up a sweat for just 1 hour a week, you'll enjoy a range of benefits: reduced risk of heart attack, better mood, and lower blood pressure. I like interval training on the elliptical, with 15 pullups and 15 dips every 10 minutes. Your muscles will become more efficient, so you'll have more stamina for more enjoyable activities that also work up a sweat.
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Put It in the Bank
Most people rank personal finance as their number one stressor, usually because they feel powerless. Stress not only shortens lives, it also drives people to habits like smoking, drinking, or bingeing on food. Keep some money in a special bank account, safe from your lust for a new television, and you'll establish an emotional comfort zone with major health benefits.
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Have as Much Sex as Possible
If a 50-something woman could have sex 700 times a year, the exercise and stress reduction would make her look and feel years younger. I wouldn't recommend quitting your day job in order to hit that number—but what's the harm in trying? The next time you don’t feel particularly in the mood, remind yourself that not having sex is literally killing you. It works for me.
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Know Your Numbers, Then Aim Lower
Take the part of your brain dedicated to your nail salon’s phone number and reassign it to your heart's vital signs. These include blood pressure (which ideally should be below 115 over 75), LDL cholesterol (under 100), resting heart rate (under 70), and fasting blood sugar (under 100). If your numbers aren't ideal, change your diet until they improve.
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Add Some Weights
Just 30 minutes twice a week spent lifting weights can build significant muscle mass. What's more, working all that muscle burns tons of calories, making it a great way to lose your gut, too. Don't have weights? Try lifting yourself: Pullups are the most valuable muscle-building exercises I do. Oprah's trainer, Bob Greene, pointed out to me that pullups work the back, pecs, arms, and belly all at once. And since you're lifting yourself, you'll think twice before eating that doughnut, because you'll just have to lift it later.
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Grab Some Nuts
Nuts are among the best sources of healthful fats and protein around. I keep a bag of walnuts in my fridge and use their massive dose of omega-3 fatty acids to boost my brainpower while I see patients. Half of a handful eaten about 30 minutes before a meal will temper your appetite and help you avoid the drive-thru.
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Hit the Dance Floor
Crosswords and card games aren't the only way to keep your brain razor sharp. It turns out that any kind of dancing with complex moves is stimulating enough to give your neurons a workout. Even the simplest moves provide some physical exercise. So don't be such a wallflower on your next night out.
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Learn to Cook
Think you know how much butter goes into those mashed potatoes at a restaurant? You're probably off by half. If you can cook, you not only save money but also gain control over what goes into your meals. Plus, cooking is sexy. I have trouble boiling water. Thankfully, I'm already married.
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Some Pills Should Be Popped
The indoor life gives us protection from the elements and the ability to watch Gossip Girl in private. Unfortunately, roughly half of us are deficient in vitamin D which the sun is a major source. This crucial vitamin may aid in fighting cancer, diabetes, and heart disease. I take a 1,000 IU supplement each morning.

Top 10 Health Tips for Women

Let's face it, ladies: Doctor visits are short. And they're getting shorter. What if your doctor had more time? She might tell you the same things that OB-GYN Alyssa Dweck, MD, co-author of V Is for Vagina, wants you to know.
Consider Dweck's tips your prescription for a lifetime of wellness.
1. Zap your stress.
"The biggest issue I see in most of my patients is that they have too much on their plates and want to juggle it all. Stress can have significant health consequences, from infertility to higher risks of depression, anxiety, and heart disease. Find the stress-reduction method that works for you and stick with it."
2. Stop dieting.
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"Eating healthy doesn't mean you have to forgo your favorite glass of wine or a piece of chocolate cake now and then. The key is moderation. Get a mix of lean proteins, healthy fats, smart carbs, and fiber."
3. Don't “OD” on calcium.
"Too much absorbed calcium can increase the risk of kidney stones and may even increase the risk of heart disease. If you're under 50, shoot for 1,000 milligrams per day, while over-50 women should be getting 1,200 milligrams per day mainly through diet -- about three servings of calcium-rich foods such as milk, salmon, and almonds."
4. Do more than cardio.
"Women need a mix of cardio and resistance or weight-bearing exercise at least three to five times a week to help prevent osteoporosis, heart disease, cancer, and diabetes. Exercise also promotes good self-image, which is really important to a woman's mental health."
5. Think about fertility.
"While many women have no problem getting pregnant in their late 30s and even into their early 40s, a woman's fertility may start to decline as early as 32. So if you want to have kids, talk to your doctor about options, like freezing your eggs."
6. Appreciate birth control.
"Birth control gets a bad rap, but not only can it keep you from getting pregnant before you're ready, studies show it can lower the risk of uterine and ovarian cancer as well as regulate your cycle."
7. See your doctor every year.
Make sure you get a Pap test to check for cervical cancer every 3 years if you are 21 or older. If you are 30-65, you can get both a Pap test and HPV test every 5 years. Older than that, you may be able to stop testing if your doctor says you are low risk. If you are sexually active and have a higher risk for STDs, get tests for chlamydia, gonorrhea, and syphilis yearly. Take an HIV test at least once, more frequently if you’re at risk. Don't skip your yearly checkup. Your doctor needs to annually assess many other issues such as potential infection, your need for contraception, and sexual complaints."
8. Have good sex.
"Sex reduces stress and may lower the risk of chronic disease -- but only if you enjoy it. If anything prevents you from sexual fulfillment, such as dryness or pain, talk to your doctor to find a solution."
9. Get more sleep.
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"Sleep needs differ, but if you have trouble getting out of bed, tire easily, or have trouble concentrating, you likely aren't getting enough. Recent studies suggest this can put you at greater risk of heart disease and psychological problems."
10. Consider genetic testing.
"Doctors can now screen people with a family history of breast cancer, ovarian cancer, and chronic diseases to assess their risk -- and then consider preventive measures. Talk to your doctor."